Are you getting the results?

Now when we start this business with love we all have our little dreams. We dream about the loveliest girls jumping our hips in our bedrooms, having threesomes in foreign beds, kissing a few strangers at one night, getting handjobs in locations where you wouldn’t even be allowed to smoke.

We all dream of getting results in the one or the other way. We all hit a glass ceiling at one point where it seems that we will never be up there with all the naturals and skilled seducers that share this lifestyle with the beauties of the world. At this point most guys will try harder and some will let it slip and give up completely. Both will fail.

There are only a few guys that try something different. A few guys let go of their dreams for a second and figure out what else could be done. They all make it. Those creative guys figure out what women really want.

This system called PickUp with all the routines will only get you so far that it shows you some potential first steps. You stumble forward with the routines and get closer to your dream. But you never want to stumble across the finish-line. Your dream was to cross the finish line as a hero, someone others can look up to – you can look up to! Someone with a bright smile on his face and a wink that tells everybody: “Dude, it’s easy… I’m in that lifestyle now…”

If you practice PickUp let me warn you not to become one of this misguided huddled masses that craves to enter the land of the free. PickUp will only give you a glimpse of what is really going on. Pickup is a technical reduction of flirting into logical speech elements. It’s stumbling along in the world of seduction. Once you reach the point where you practiced PickUp long enough, where you feel like there has got to be something else that gets you further along this path… well, then it’s time to say good bye. Let it slip. Your dreams, your safety belt, your routines, everything that you thought will assure you a safe place among the ladies men. Because it never will.

If you figure that you should have more success based on the time and energy you invest on this topic – then guess what? You’re doing something wrong! I personally know guys that figured the whole seduction topic out in less than a year. I was pretty fast myself… When I take a look around in the lairs there are people that do PickUp, more or less stiff on routines or techniques, get a few times lucky a year but still want more… more… more. They know they can do better, they know they have got potential – and still they improve very slowly. The trick is: Let  go!

Forget about the safety belts, the routines and your dreams and swim among women like a fish. You guys have seen so much stuff, run so many conversations with people, have so much experience in talking to people and still… you think the only way to your goals is through planed routines, bits of conversations or little scripts or concepts that run your brain while you sit among the loveliest people inhabiting this planet. Trust me, trust yourself! Just forget about all this stuff for a while and do what you already know! You have learnt more than the system of PickUp allows you to use! You use about 5% of your actual potential!

Yeah right… 5%! Forget about your dreams and let go of neediness to ever achieve what you wanted, to ever cross the finish-line! Let go of it, but still run towards the finish-line. I promise that you will keep on running and at one point a reporter will run up to you and ask you: “So how does it feel to be amongst the seducers of this world? How was the run? Did you ever think you will make it?” and you will be surprised that you are already there.

Because you are (almost) already there. Trust yourself!

P.S.: The reason I write this is because I found a video on Youtube that reminded me of how I see PickUpArtists. I’m gonna show you that in a second… and you will understand. PickUpArtists at one point start doing a lot of stuff that is actually crap – it’s neither efficient nor productive. They just do it because they think it will get them laid. Girls will get along with a lot. Because at that point girls dig you – they want to be with you and they will get over these weird suff that you say sometimes. They get over it, but they hate it. If you would just not do it and let that charisma flow that you gained over the last months, you would actually be fine! Trust yourself!

This post is probably for the best guys in every Lair, those that have been in the game for over a year, those doing PickUp, those that are involved in the community and still don’t get the results they should have. Beginners… well I’m gonna write something else for you in a while

Check out the video!

http://de.youtube.com/watch?v=SIIEwaEMOrE

Btw: Thanks to the people who produced this video!